There are many irritating stereotypes associated with golf and most are unfounded or outdated – The idea that golf is only for the elite, the idea that golf is only for overweight oldies in Argyle sweaters, the idea that golf is not environmentally focused, the idea that golfers are snobbish and, one that I really dislike, the idea that golf is a marriage wrecker. The plight of golf widows and widowers has long been depicted in sitcoms and daytime dramas. I’m imagining now, an episode of Midsomer Murders – The Old Colonel blustering through the kitchen with his golf clubs and golden retriever as his long-suffering wife looks wistfully at the carving knives.
No doubt there are instances of golfing widows or widowers who feel left out. But I think their numbers are dwarfed by those in relationships that are bolstered by one or both partners’ involvement in golf.
Golf is good for you both mentally and physically. The sport should keep you fitter and make you happier. If you’re a fitter and happier person, you’re likely to be nicer to be around and be in a better frame of mind to deal with the challenges of everyday life.
That’s simple stuff really, isn’t it? You don’t need to be a clinical psychologist to recognise that relationships are more likely to flourish, thrive and survive if the participants are happy and healthy. Golf can put you in a good place, and if your relationship is not currently in a good place, maybe now is the time to hit the fairways. Here are five ways golf could save your marriage.
1. Much needed time together
Golfers enjoying some time together
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A great thing about golf is that it can be played together by people of all ages and of both sexes. The handicap system, the teeing options, the huge range of equipment available – all are geared to make golf universally playable. If you and your partner both play golf, it’s the ideal activity to enjoy together. It’s a proper day out, a chance to talk, share experience and just be with one another. It’s a physical activity but one where there’s also a great social side offering the chance to meet and spend time with other couples. The chance for a bite to eat in the clubhouse after the game. The chance to enjoy a little (hopefully) friendly competition with your other half whilst relishing the fresh air and the beauty of the golfing environment.
Even if only one of you in the relationship plays golf, the other can get something out of it….
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